They just keep it for themselves as part of their memories with the dead person. Generally, people who are requested to deliver eulogies are those people who are considered to know best the deceased person.
My feelings are that you should go with what feels right for you and what your departed loved one may have wanted. Just sit down and write from your heart. There are a variety of ways in which to use funeral music, you can have music playing while guests are entering prior to the service, you can set beautiful and personal music to a DVD of still pictures of the deceased, you can even take breaks throughout the service to play different pieces of funeral music.
But ensure it is not over whelming because it might upset the bereaving family. Writing on a computer can also help to accomplish what you are trying to do. It is most important to make the obituary personal by reflecting the real person.
Death is hard to accept but can be made easier by the love extended by people who truly care. To be asked to deliver a memorial tribute is to be given the responsibility of assisting many.
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